Man's Duties

In moral and religious issues, the issue of family has been given great importance. If each man and woman do their duties well, the home will be warm and pleasant.
Man's duties can be divided into five parts. In the first part, the topic of good ethics is examined, which is a general topic
Man's duties can be divided into five parts. In the first part, the topic of good ethics is examined, which is a general topic. Sometimes we see those who are very polite outside the house and are very pleasant and smiling in relation to their colleagues and friends, when they come home, they behave badly. it's wrong.
The second thing is the man's relationship and being with his family. Many jobs, multiple jobs and long working hours have caused men to be less present in the home environment.
In the past, a man's distance from the home environment was not so great. When the man came home after about eight hours of work, he had nothing else to do and at home, he was a kind husband to his wife and a kind father to his children; But unfortunately, nowadays, family members live under the same roof, but everyone is looking for their own work and they don't communicate with each other. This causes a lot of damage.
Therefore, men should pay attention to how many hours of the day and night they are at home and how much time they spend at home communicating with their wives and children. Excess is not good; Laziness and idleness are neither pleasant nor too much work. Second and third jobs harm our social and family life. Of course, some people have no choice and say that we have to work in several places, but we must not forget that working in this way damages our body and soul.
Sitting with family members is love and intimacy. Sometimes there are men who prefer to eat outside even after marriage. This is very unpleasant. A dear young man who is married has chosen a life partner for himself; Therefore, he should be with his wife.
Avoiding physical abuse of one's wife is one of the most important duties of a man. Unfortunately, there are men who hurt their wives. The Prophet of God (PBUH) said: I am surprised by a man who beats his wife, while he himself deserves to be beaten [and be polite].
Another task of a man, which can help strengthen the relationship with his wife, is to cooperate in housework.
One of the obligatory tasks of a man is to provide for his wife's financial needs.
Therefore, one of the characteristics of the best man is that he does not do anything to reach out to others for the needs of his wife and family members. In the continuation of this narration, the Prophet (PBUH) considers the worst men to be those who are stingy and make their families reach out to others for their needs.
A man who does not provide for his wife's needs and her wife needs others, is one of the worst men, even if that other person is his father or brother. Women also do not like to ask for their needs from other than their husbands. This is a man's duty.
The Prophet (PBUH) says:
The best of you is the one who is the best for his family and I am the best for my family among you.

 translator : F.A